First of all, I will almost never write a weight loss article without recommending that you
exercise regularly. However, proper nutrition is a major factor in any healthy weight loss program, and that is what I am writing about today, but just because I don't mention exercise very much in this article does not mean that it is not important or that I am recommending losing weight by going on a diet or by eating certain foods, etc.
Now, as
Tom Venuto says in his great book,
"Burn the Fat, Feed the Muscle":
"Almost every conventional diet program has one thing in common. Extremely low calories." However, as I have pointed out in several articles and Tom also points out, simply cutting calories drastically is not a beneficial or effective weight loss method. The
starvation response kicks in after a while, and you can actually create a situation in where you eventually wind up gaining weight!
Witness Kirstie Alley!So, your body needs and wants food, and consuming less food is one way to lose weight, but how do you get around the thing about not cutting calories drastically and still lose weight?
Well, as mentioned, one step is to exercise more, but the other is to eat more food...the right kind of food!
Now, one of the first steps IS to produce a calorie deficit. This means that the amount of calories you take in SHOULD be less than what you expend. However, you do NOT want to cut these calories too drastically. Start with a small reduction, and even do it over time if that makes it easier. Your goal eventually will be to cut your daily calorie intake by between 500 and 1,000 calories.
Once you have established a "slightly" lower calorie intake, start getting a little more activity. You could do both at the same time, but remember, your actual goal is to create a lifelong, healthy habit rather than just "lose weight". It always seems that good habits don't come easy, and the harder we try to create them the more they seem to evade us. That's why you should start with the habit first and then move more deeply into the activity or non-activity you are trying to establish.
Here's an example.In his book on
Kaizen
, "
One Small Step Can Change Your Life: The Kaizen Way
", author Robert Maurer, PhD, gives the example of a woman who desparately needed to establish an exercise habit. As many times as she had been told this, and as many times as she had tried, she had always "fallen off the wagon" in a short time...if she even started at all. She knew that she needed to do it, but she was a busy single mom who simply did not see how she could fit a regular exercise program into her lifestyle.
Dr. Maurer and his colleague encouraged her to stand up and walk in place for one minute a night while watching TV with her kids. A few weeks later, she reported feeling better...and walking for MORE than a minute. Over time, she extended the time, and the intensity of her activity and eventually was actually participating in a regular exercise program.
On the food side, such as I am recommending here, Dr. Maurer uses the example of people who cut down their daily calorie intake by leaving one french fry, then two, then three, eventually not even bothering to buy the french fries in the first place.
Okay, you have decided to cut calories a little...and get a little exercise maybe. Let's call that "step one".
I guess step two would be to simply find things to eat instead of what you eat now. Remember, you eat wHAT you eat because it is a habit. All you have to do is substitute another habit. You already know a lot of the rules. For example, if I was to ask which is better for you; an apple or apple pie, I think you could come up with the right answer.
Some things may be a little more difficult or complicated, but a little research and a little common sense can go a long way. Will power is great, but if you depend on that, you may find yourself back where you started...if you ever get off the ground in the first place.
By the way, I have no problem with you eating the things you like. You just need to eat them in moderation. You know, most people do not even know how much a "serving" is or how many calories they are actually consuming per day.
In his book, "Burn the Fat, Feed the Muscle", natural bodybuilder, fitness coach, and nutrition expert Tom Venuto points out that for many women, 1,900 calories a day could be a normal intake for maitaining body weight at current levels. A Big Mac and a small order of fries provides 770 calories! That's almost half the daily amount needed simply to maintain weight at a given level for some women.
My point is NOT that there are that many calories in a Big Mac and fries (not counting a drink or hot apple pie), but that most people do not understand how much food, and how many calories, they are getting in the food they eat. I love Chili's Grilled Salmon w/ Garlic & Herbs (had it yesterday) but even it contains 630 calories!
Here's the kicker.
Despite the title of this comment, you cannot eat more than you do now and lose weight. You can, however, eat more of the foods that are good for you, such as fresh fruits and vegetables, lean meats, and high fiber foods, feel like you've had a good meal, get the nutrition you need AND lose weight.
Cut back on the calories a little, increase your activity a little, and, over time, you will begin to see a weight loss. Since we all are different and your mix of activity and food may be different from your sister's or your neighbor's, it's hard to write down a specific menu and exercise program for each person. You will have to play around with yours a little bit.
It also doesn't hurt to get a little more coaching than can be had in one small article. Frankly, I could write a series of several articles on the subject, but Tom Venuto has written what I consider to be the ultimate fat loss coaching book...
"Burn the Fat, Feed the Muscle". I would recommend you start there. I have posted a
review of Tom Venuto's book at
http://nodiet4me.com/burn_fat.html.
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